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Showing posts with label Others. Show all posts

02 April 2014

NOW WHO'S GONNA SAVE THE DOCTORS?

A friend of mine worked as a gynecologist in Australia and she shared a blog entry on her Facebook.

I clicked on it, thinking it was a light-hearted article and ended up reading a very genuinely-written article, highlighting the legal & work problems faced by the doctors in Queensland, Australia. The blog entry was written by a Emergency Physician who worked in the public hospital of Queensland.

Ran a Google search today and this came up:



I can't believe what I am reading. A government wanting to sue hundreds of doctors in its state??? According to the blog writer, his reason for refusal to comply was:

"I simply want to be able to do what I have trained my entire adult life to do; To make sick people better, without being told that I can’t use drug x, or device y, or technique z, because they are too expensive. We take the doctor-patient relationship extremely seriously. From day one in medical school, we are constantly reminded of the sacrosanct nature of this bond...I have to be free to do my best for my patients, or I do not deserve the title Dr."

From ABC news, hundreds of senior medical officers in Queensland are threatening to quit over new State Government contracts.

I can't quite fathom why the politicians will resort to such a biased medical contract that affects the morale and welfare of its state doctors so badly. I pray, with such a dangerous medical system in play, I will never ever need emergency care in Queensland. And please, Singapore, don't ever end up like this. Not so chek ark please. Sure will 折福折壽 & 絕子絕孫, no matter how many parenthood campaigns you run.

On another side note, if I ever have the tremendous fortune to be a great doctor (no no, not the aesthetics kind) in my next life, please don't let me be born in Queensland and suffer the fate of 英雄無用武之地.

Below is a re-post of the brilliantly detailed article of a hectic day in the life of the Emergency Physician, who have since resigned from the public hospital. I wish you well, Doctor. May your noble ambitions of serving the Queensland population in the public sector be fulfilled soon.


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It can’t be right!

Like many professionals, I find myself in my early forties, settled, with a partner and two young children. I’m an older parent than most. My partner and I postponed having our children until I had completed my training since my pay, short term employment contracts and working long hours as a junior doctor in the public health system meant that it was financially not viable for us to start a family earlier. Qualifying as a doctor is just the beginning of a long, long journey. I completed nine years of postgraduate training and moved eleven times, including twice internationally, before I passed my final fellowship and became a consultant Emergency Physician.

That was ten years ago this year. Since then I have worked as a full time Staff Specialist in Emergency Medicine in the public hospital system of Queensland. I vividly remember the Bundaberg and Caboolture hospital scandals, and have no wish to return to the days of skeleton staffing and unacceptable standards of care. I deliver hands on, 24 hour a day emergency care to the people of Queensland in some of the most difficult moments of their lives. Sometimes I am with them as they are born, frequently I help them as they confront a serious illness in themselves or a loved one. Sometimes I am with them when they die. This is the challenge and the privilege of Emergency Medicine.

I am starting a ten hour clinical shift in a metropolitan emergency department. Most days we will see around two hundred to two hundred and fifty patients per 24 hours. Every single one of these Queenslanders brings their own unique medical problem in their own personal context. My job is to see that each one of them receives the care that they need in a caring, compassionate and timely fashion. I have a team of young doctors with me, and together we aim to achieve this goal. Today, at the 8am handover, I learn that two of our junior doctors are sick. Since we have a total of 6 juniors on the day shift, we have lost a third of our medical staff before the shift has even begun. The Emergency Department is already understaffed so there are no replacements. We will simply have to “suck it up” as it is known in the trade. The night doctors are tired. It has been a busy night, and the on call Consultant was called in for a critically ill patient at 5am, having only finished the evening shift at 1am. The call, however necessary,  and her departure will also have woken her partner, and probably her two children. We are on call after an evening shift at least once a week, and the nights on call don’t just affect us, but our families too. She is finishing her clinical notes having just transported the patient to the intensive care unit. The patient, a 47 year old man with a young family, arrived with chest pain before promptly having a cardiac arrest in the emergency department. My colleague led the team who administered drugs and an electric shock to restart the patients heart, placed a tube in his airway to allow him to breathe and called in and coordinated the arrival of a Cardiologist and cardiology team to take the patient for an emergency angioplasty in the “Cath Lab”. As the senior emergency doctor, she personally escorted the patient with their life support machine to the lab. She remained with them for the duration of the one hour procedure, whilst administering anaesthetic drugs to keep the patient asleep, before escorting the still unconscious patient to the ICU. She should be back on duty in 5 hours, but has only had 3 hours sleep. Another Consultant, probably on their day off, will come in to cover the first half of her shift. The late notice phone calls to come in to work are just accepted as part of the job, but are disruptive to family life. Our children quickly learn that Mummy or Daddy’s promises to be at their sports day or school music concert actually come with a silent “unless the department needs me” on the end!

The Emergency Physicians and some of the Intensive Care doctors are the only senior doctors who work shifts. We know that a patient who is seen by a senior emergency doctor on arrival is more likely to survive, and we are committed to this concept. If you are sick, we will be there for you – 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. That is the commitment that we make to you.
The day has begun badly, but it often does. We just have to deal with it. Public Emergency departments don’t close just because they are full or because there are no beds in the hospital or because of staff sickness, so we work on…

I see a 98 year old lady with a broken hip after a fall. She tells me that she is looking forward to getting her telegrams from the Queen and Governor-General. I prescribe morphine for her pain and order x-rays, a heart tracing and blood tests. I can’t just assume that she has tripped. If I miss the fact that actually she has had a heart attack, seizure, sudden disturbance in heart rhythm or any one of a dozen other conditions that could have led to her fall, then those telegrams may never become a reality. I reassure her that all will be well, and that our doctors will refer her to an Orthopaedic Surgeon for surgery.

I see a 27 year old girl who is 8 weeks pregnant and has started to bleed. This is probably a miscarriage, but I can’t assume anything. I need to be sure that this is not something more sinister like an ectopic pregnancy, where the fertilised egg develops outside the womb causing pain and catastrophic bleeding. I ask a female junior doctor to perform an examination on the young lady, and order an ultrasound and blood tests, whilst making sure that a transfusion sample is taken just in case. She also receives painkillers. The possibility of miscarriage is a devastating psychological blow for this patient, and a nurse and myself spend time trying to reassure her and put her more at ease before her partner arrives. I offer to break the news to him when he arrives.

I see a 19 year old heroin user who came in overnight having been found unconscious. The night team saved his life by giving oxygen and medication when he stopped breathing. Since then he has been sleeping peacefully, but now he is awake and angry. I want to x-ray his chest to make sure that he did not inhale any mouth secretions whilst he was lying unconscious in the park. He throws his breakfast pack at a nurse and delivers a stream of obscenities. I intervene and attempt to reason with him whilst security are called. He spits at me, but the presence of three burly security guards deters him from further violence and he relents. The x-ray is performed before he is discharged in search of more heroin.

The scan result on a 23 year old girl in our short stay unit has come back saying that she has a blood clot on her lung. Left untreated, this is life threatening. I prescribe medication to thin her blood, having calculated the correct dose, and explain the implications of her diagnosis and that she will have to be admitted to the hospital for further treatment and investigation. I refer her to a Respiratory Physician.
An alarm sounds, and our team rushes to the resuscitation area, where a middle aged lady arrives on an ambulance trolley looking sick. Very sick. This lady is now my absolute priority. Everyone else will have to wait. She has an abnormal heart trace, but also has back pain and low blood pressure. The resuscitation team, of which I am the leader, quickly apply oxygen, place intravenous drips and administer medications, but she rapidly deteriorates and her heart stops. I coordinate the resuscitation attempt, standing by the patient and managing the team’s interventions, whilst simultaneously alerting the rest of the hospital to events in the ED. I call ICU and a Cardiologist in order to mobilise the resources which this lady may need if she survives. She rallies for a period of time, but sadly dies without regaining consciousness. I ensure that she spends her last moments with her husband, and take time to express my condolences and to offer support. Putting my hand on his shoulder as he cries, I ask our social worker to speak with him, and offer him a telephone if he wishes to call anyone. Even in his moment of grief, he thanks me for caring for his wife.

The day continues. At 3pm I realise how hungry I am and that I really, really need to go to the bathroom. Time pressure has meant that food and bathrooms have not been an option until now. I have limited time, so the bathroom wins. Lunch will have to wait. There is always one more patient to see.
The last time I checked, if I chose to work in a private ED then I could earn two to three times what I do now. It’s not that I can’t work in the private system. The two fellowships I have completed during my training mean that my qualifications are as good as, if not better than many of my private colleagues. It’s simply that I don’t WANT to work in the private hospital system. I see my job as delivering high quality, compassionate and timely emergency care to the WHOLE population of Queensland, not just those lucky enough to be able to afford private insurance. I also value my role in helping to teach the next generation of Emergency Physicians, a responsibility taken on almost solely by the public hospital system.

Work pressures in Emergency Departments are increasing, as are emergency attendances, while at the same time budgets are being cut. We are constantly being told to do more with less. What is expected of the staff in this high stakes environment continues to increase. I work at least one evening shift and night on call a week and every third or fourth weekend. This has a significant impact on my home life, my partner and my children. I have accepted all of this without complaint. Emergency Medicine is not glamorous and rarely makes the headlines. I accept this. I just want to be able to do a good job and take good care of my patients.

My employer is now asking me to sign an individual contract with them, which removes all of the rights and protections which I currently enjoy under the award. My right of appeal to the QIRC has been removed. If I sign this contract, my ability to protect YOU from bad decisions by bureaucrats is massively compromised. I can be fired for speaking out over important issues, or for “refusing a reasonable direction” from a manager. This could include being ordered to not prescribe a particular drug or to open the Cardiac Cath Lab out of hours on the grounds of expense. At the moment I have the right to fight them, to fight for you, but I have a wife and two children to feed and clothe. I can’t afford to lose my job.

They have also removed the existing fatigue provisions from the new contract. Tired doctors make bad decisions, and these clauses protect us from being forced to work excessive hours by an organisation who’s own report into fatigue in doctors, produced at significant taxpayers expense, concluded that we should just drink coffee! The contract now states that fatigue will now be managed “locally”. I think we all know what that means.

The worst thing about the contract is that any aspect of it can be unilaterally and retrospectively changed by my employer without my consent. Half of the doctors leave? No problem, we’ll just flog the rest harder, they can cover the extra shifts. No need to employ any expensive new ones. After all, they can just drink coffee, our own report says so, and the patients will never notice. If the doctors complain, we’ll change their contract and put them on the minimum wage, or just terminate their employment. Try to open an operating theatre for a sick patient in the middle of the night? The bureaucrats might think it’s too expensive. Argue with them? You are terminated with immediate effect. That will make you think twice!

One leading employment lawyer described the contract as the most one sided contract they had ever seen. Like many emergency doctors, I have a mortgage to pay and a partner and two children who depend on me as their main bread winner. It will be a cruel irony indeed if my employer, the Queensland Government, forces me into the private hospital system by its insistence that I sign a contract which fundamentally shifts the balance of power in the health system away from those who actually care for patients, and towards accountants and bureaucrats, who only see the financial bottom line.

I work for the organisation which employed Jayent Patel, and then flew him out of the country when it all went wrong. It closed Caboolture Emergency Department by letting the working conditions become so hazardous and unbearable that all the senior staff left. It left us unpaid for weeks at a time by its incompetent management of the new payroll system, but now I am being asked to trust it, and put my employment rights and YOUR health in its hands.

The public health system is sleep walking into a disaster for patient care.

Queensland, I need your help!

I have always been there when you need me.

Will you be there for me?




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Metta,
欣雨 Xinyu

09 July 2013

FAN GIRL CONVERSATIONS


I had this fan girl crush on Jet Li recently after rewatching 中南海保鏢 on Youtube.




That explains the recent late night movie marathons on Youtube, catching up on all his past movies and just to ooh and aah at my crush.

The next day, I had to explain to the Husband why I looked so starstruck while staring into my phone.

Me: You know why don't you go learn martial arts?

Husband: Hahaha, you want me to be like Jet Li ah?

Me *squint my eyes*:  But I think you need to slim down first. Your frame is too big for a martial arts person.

Husband: Ya, like Kungfu Panda!

Somewhere along the gleeful conversation, something struck me.

Me: Why is it that when 男人認真在做東西時,就被認爲帥? Like how when Jet Li is very serious in his roles and he looked so handsome. 而女人在認真做事時,好像不會被說為美麗或漂亮?

Husband: Well, because the definition of women's beauty is not about their seriousness.

Me: Huh, why ah? I mean doesn't dedication counts?

Husband: Yes, but oh well...

Me: I know...男女是不太會平等的。 




Metta,
欣雨 Xinyu

08 July 2013

1ST CHEQUE FROM NUFFNANG


Regular blogger, I am not.

Neither did I set out to monetize this blog or make any effort to drive traffic to this space of mine.

So it's a sweet surprise to know that my blog earnings have reached a low three-digit, after 150 posts.





To Nuffnang, thank you for giving us this opportunity to earn extra income and keeping your ads clean and engaging.

To all my blog readers, thank you for making time to read my blog and clicking on the ads that you like. I hope you find your time here well spent. And yes, go put some Nuffnang ads on your blogs if you haven't!

Thank you, thank you, thank you!


Metta,
欣雨 Xinyu

04 June 2013

LOST IN TRANSLATION I

Where have you been all my life?

Over the Vesak weekend, I spent 6-7 hours daily doing translation works. Apart from doing my daily prayers practice at home, I didn't go for the usual celebratory activities. I wanted to use the time to do something for Buddhism instead. Think that would make Buddha happy too, no?

I would be in the bedroom on my small hot pink plastic table (and I mean, really small, like this S$12 foldable tray table from NTUC), sitting on my lime Ikea stool (I think it's meant for kids), voraciously churning out lines and lines of translated words. 

The Husband would be in the living room, sitting at the long dining table, either editing my works or doing the translation for other articles that I asked him to. If I had any word/sentence structure I'm unable to translate, I would snap a pic of my screen and watsapp him. The Husband's English proficiency is way better than mine (how can his mind work so quick?!), but I win hands down at being more meticulous in translating the original content without losing its intended meaning.

It was an awesome long weekend to be doing something literary, though it's not literature. I can't remember the last time I squeezed my brain muscles this much. TFL work is fun but this brings back so many memories of how I slough during my uni days, rushing projects after projects, assignments after assignments.

I only wish we have a super duper long work table in some big home office room so that the Husband & I can sit side by side to do this translating work so that I can pester him to death and work less.



I like the colour scheme but please give me some curtains or my eyes gonna melttttt!



Who says island tops can only be used in the kitchens?


Top favourite!

Modern vintage style is so pretty!!

Pictures credit: Google images

I would have at least 8-10 tabs opened on my Firefox. There's this Buddhist dictionary, Nciku.com for Chinese-English translations, Google search (ploughing through the entire web for translations if Nciku is not good enough), the original article I'm translating, my inbox, this tab of English Grammar (I'm thinking I should buy that Cambridge grammar book from Popular), sometimes Buddhanet and many other sites that I found just to translate that one tricky phrase. And of course, Open Office (I don't use MS Office. Open Office is free.)

I can really do this day in day out. 

Suddenly, it seemed like the past 20 years of education all make sense after all. 

We are blessed to be bilingual. I might still need a proper dictionary and a grammar guide. Just in case.

But I was pretty brain fried after that long weekend and had to stay off translating long articles for a few days. Jeez, I should have done more Sudouku for some brain yoga to keep it in shape. 

The other day, there was this sentence I had to translate: 大家看看,想想短暫又脆弱的人生...
  
I read it out loud from my phone (Inbox) and asked the Husband, "How do you say 短暫 in English?"

My brain was freezing after doing too many translations at one go.

The Husband replied, "Short-lived!"

"Short-lived? I thought there's a better word for it in Buddhism!"

"Temporary? I think it's either short-lived or temporary!"

"Sure or not? Sounds strange. Cannot anyhow translate. Can you be a bit more serious or not?"

"I'm serious! Who says I'm not serious? I don't look serious meh??"

"How about 脆弱?"

"BRITTLE!" He said it with so much conviction.

"Brittle? Sounds like bones advertisement. Like, brittle bones, please drink Anlene!"

"No, I'm very sure it's BRITTLE!"

"Then what? You mean like 'Everyone think think and see see how life is short-lived and brittle'? Or 'Life is temporary and brittle'? Like very 苦like that."

"Yes, you got it right! Life is 苦 what in the eyes of the Buddha. "

"I don't believe you."

Final translation - Let's take a look and think about how transient and fragile life is...
  
Sometimes Google translate works better than a human brain.

Just sometimes.

Anyone out there can figure out what the English term for 知音 is?


Metta, 
欣雨 Xinyu

19 April 2012

What's in my Wallet

I had always read posts where people blog about what they have in their bags.

Being a bag seller, I thought I should do something like that too! But after reading quite a few, I realise, honestly, it's more or less the same. So I thought of blogging about something else.




The first branded wallet I ever bought for myself!

When I was a kid, I used to fantasize about owning many branded wallets & bags. Thought it was as easy as ABC when I am a working adult. On hindsight, I was rather delusional, wasn't I? Haha!

My girlfriends were very sweet to give me a Jean Paul Gaultier black short wallet on my 17th birthday. Had no idea why they did that (we were only college kids!). Maybe they found it embarrassing to hang out with me who was still using a colourful velcro wallet from my secondary school days.

I am not a change-my-wallet-every-other-month kind of girl. (Ya lah, I was too lazy to buy a new wallet & transfer all the contents.) That JPG wallet lasted me till I was 26. The reason for changing was my money and cards were slipping out of the slots, after a decade of usage! 我很长情耶!

Got this Burberry Blue wallet from Fukuoka, during my first flight there! I am a fan of Burberry checks and Burberry Blue and what's better than to get it from the land of Hello Kitty! I swear merchandise there are much sweeter looking than those in Taiwan & Hong Kong!

I remember going for the flight all excited, not just because I love Japan & it was my first time to Fukuoka but that I was finally going to buy my dream wallet! Right after a short rest, I was thronging the malls together with another stewardess. We checked out the wallets at several Burberry Blue branches before deciding on this. It was so pretty and adorable! I think it cost me about S$500+. Had wanted to get a long wallet for more compartment space, but wasn't able to find a suitable one.

Mad excited was an understatement.




Fast forward 5 years later, my Burberry Blue wallet was starting to look real dirty (didn't know how to clean canvas proper!) and Master Dai Hu was telling me that using a black/dark wallet is best for keeping money. Keeping as in storing wealth, not the simple act of having a case for shoving your money in. In all honesty, I do think I manage to store more wealth during my JPG wallet days. =/

Bought the above wallet from Skyblue when TFL was still taking stock from them. It's not my favourite wallet out of the 3 I have owned. But this will do for the time being till I have the time and willingness to part with more money. =X




My first long wallet! It makes storing and sorting of cards and whatnots so much easier than a short wallet! Never ever going back to a short wallet! Silly but it just feels more elegant to be whipping out a long wallet from my bag and pulling out S$50 notes (as if I carry that many, hahaha!) that are nicely laid flat. My notes used to be all squashed in my short wallet, especially when I was in a hurry. Yes, I'm not the most ladylike girl around. Hahaha!




Some of the many, many, many cards in my wallet!

In my growing up days, money was always an issue at home. So over the years, I have learnt that one way of spending less money for the same thing a.k.a saving money is to own a membership card from the shop/restaurant I patronize. I remember having a separate plastic case during my teenager days to hold all the odd membership cards, those girly & pastel personal namecards from my friends and Aaron Kwok's photos! What a memory!

So there's the TCC and Coffee Club cards. I can't remember what's the qualifying criteria, but it's somewhere along the line of spending more than S$88 in a receipt. Being my birthday month this April, TCC was very generous to send me a 50% discount card for my first consumption at TCC and a subsequent 30% discount for my 2nd consumption. 太慷慨了!

And the all-necessary Popular card for the stationery for Tian Fen Lan. Now, who doesn't shop at Watsons?? S$5 to get lifetime membership is mad affordable! I've lost track of the number of times I've redeemed my Watsons points. Definitely very worth it!

I had forgotten that I had this Eu Yan Sang card till I see this pic! Aaah, always never present the card! Think I got the Helen card after spending more than S$30 at one time. The IORA card? Sorry, I can't remember! Might be S$150 & above in a receipt.




My first credit card was a supplementary card from the then-Boyfriend-now-Husband. I eventually got to having a credit card under my name, and that was because I wanted to help this random marketer to earn some commission. The then-Boyfriend-now-Husband was telling me how these cold callers earn almost nothing if they didn't get people to sign up for the bank's cards.

However, I do not like to use credit cards, because the idea of paying bills at the end of the month & possibility of being in debt is very off-putting. Apart from using it to pay for the occasional air tickets or to secure hotel bookings, my credit card is pretty much sitting around doing nothing.

So those cards above are debit cards from UOB & DBS! I love my debit cards! The same convenience of credit cards but without the worry of debt & bills and they double up as ATM cards with NETS functions too! When used as a debit card, they chalk up points that allow me to redeem free stuff from the card catalogue too! I always feel that I should only spend what I have. If don't have, don't spend. As simple as that.

I used to love DBS because once upon a time, there was barely any queue at their ATMs. But the peace of withdrawing money in solitude was gone after DBS and POSB merged. That prompted me to open a UOB a/c. Their ATMs are just as accessible as DBS/POSB's. I can't stand queuing up for ATMs! Such a waste of time when other banks' ATMs are queue-free.

UOB cards are much loved by me because I get to enjoy a lot of dining privileges with their debit cards. I  have had 10-15% deducted from my dining bills at Si Chuan Dou Hua Restaurant,  Goodwood Park Hotel, Mandarin Oriental Meltz Cafe and many others! UOB hooks up with some of the best restaurants around and most importantly, the restaurants I dine at too, to give their cardholders very useful discounts.

The DBS-Takashimaya debit card is really cool too! I can accumulate Takashimaya Bonus Points to redeem for gift vouchers, become a Takashimaya VIP to enjoy an additional 10% discount at selected sale events, and get a free S$3 top-up to my CashCard with a purchase of S$120. Only thing is I don't shop much at Takashimaya, but together with CK Tang, they are my favourite deparment stores!

Alright, I'm starting to sound either like I'm marketing for the banks or very auntie in the way I love the discounts. =__=





My membership card from Fabric-Pro, the laundrette that has done so many miracles on my curtains, suits & other workwear! Paid S$20 for lifetime member discounts! 非常值得!

Salon Vim membership card that I paid S$50 for, which is fully redeemable for their hair services! 哪里不划算! And 15% discount!

Apart my IC and the usual stash of "护生符", there's also a Metro membership card which I obtained by painstakingly accumulating S$300 worth of receipts over 3 months (buying new curtains & bedsheets pre-CNY helped!) and this Ala-carte membership card from the Millennium hotel group! 

That brings the number to a whopping 11 membership cards in my wallet! Do you have as many cards as I do or perhaps even more?

My next black wallet must have a lot of card slots too!

One last thing, I'm so so so so happy with the response from you girls for TFL debut clothing line! Thank you thank you! =DD



Metta, 
欣雨 Xinyu

17 March 2012

Random




I'm especially in love with what Mr Buffet said about spending. So true. Too many people I know are in credit card debt. It's a neverending cycle for them.

And is it only me who thinks this same set of rules somehow apply to relationships as well? Apart from the Investment quote of course. =P




Now if you don't agree with the previous one, I'm dead sure you will agree with this.

Reminds me of falling in love. Will the rate of return be proportionate to the risk that we took?

I don't think we ever know till everything ends, isn't it?

And that's what makes love so enchanting.

Though I must say the older I get, the harder it is for me to take such risk all over again.

The amount of risk we can take in love is probably somehow equivalent to the age we are. Haha!



Metta,
欣雨 Xinyu

27 December 2011

Pre-X'mas D.I.Y



My geomancer have been telling me to put up some nice food photos in my home, like dim sum, desserts or fruits.
Sounds great, since I can't imagine my home having photos right out of a menu say, from a seafood restaurant or a steak house.

It was then I realised it's quite tough to find nice and affordable food photos.
My first thought was Ikea. Naturally.
Never thought Ikea is terrible at food photos.
There isn't any appealing food photos!
No, doesn't include those on the menu board at Ikea cafeteria.
I don't fancy staring at deep fried chicken wings or saucy meatballs in the middle of the night at home either.

So I turned to food blogs out of desperation.
Guess where I found the photos that fit the criteria of my geomancer? =)



If there's anything that Ikea can be counted on, it's pretty X'mas gift wrapping at a great price tag.
All the frills and frou.
 I have tons and tons of these at home.
And that's the pair of scissors that has cut so many parcel papers to wrap bulky bags.
S$2 a pair from Daiso. Love that mint green!



 Honestly, I' m not good at reading instructions.
Like my Dad, I just figured things out.
But here's wishing the Husband was around when I did this.
I don't keep my nails long so that it's easier & faster to check bags for posting.
And that makes it tough to lift up those little black hooks!



The ribbons were an impromptu add-on.
I thought the wooden frames look bland with just the photos.
Was wondering how to stick the ribbon to the frame.
I didn't have superglue or double-sided tape.



Resorted to sticking scotchtape at the back.
Thankfully, it holds up and doesn't damage the frame.



Forgot to fix the metal bits and hanging wire.
Had to unhook the whole back board again.
The agony of not having nails.
Fixing teeny-weensy metal stuff is not my favourite thing to do.



Making sure that the ribbon at the side are in place.
I like how the ribbons lay over each other.
The sides resembled a very thick book, don't they?



Tied 3 ribbons, thinking that the frames will look prettier with top bows.
But it proved to be too much.
So there goes my effort.




Think I didn't fix the 3M hooks well.
Must get the Husband to do it again, so that everything looks straight.
I'm really bad at this.

Thank you to Noobcook.com for kindly sending me the high resolution photos!
Your photos are mad gorgeous! So much better than Ikea's!
I developed them as 6R or 8R photos, if I remember correctly.
I promised the blog owner to show her how it would look when I hang the photos up.

That's my X'mas morning brunch!
Macaroni with roasted chicken shreds in Minestrone soup, a recipe adapted from Noobcook.com.
It was yummilicious! =))

I must make it a habit to put fresh flowers on my dining table.
And that's the Ipad the Husband received from his boss as a X'mas present.
Now he's never going to quit his job to help TFL.

Oh well, hope you have had a great X'mas weekend!



Metta,
欣雨 Xinyu

13 November 2011

Working at 31,000 feet

 This blog is hitting one year old soon. 

Was never on my mind to write about being a Singapore Girl, a Flight Stewardess with Singapore Airlines.
I don't even have a suitable label for this entry.

In fact, I steer away from mentioning it too much. 
Least I come across as being A.A. (attract attention).

Not till I got this question in my Formspring inbox 5 weeks ago. 
Oh goodness, has it been 5 weeks??
So sorry for the wait, dear reader!



Occasionally, I see the topic of being an air crew being discussed on others' Formspring. 
I guess being a stewardess is still the dream job for many.

Well, it was never my aspiration to be one.


Why did I become an air crew?


Back in 2001, the economy was not rosy and at the point of graduation, I had almost S$30K Tuition Fee Loan and student loan to pay off.
It was a struggle for my parents to put me through uni.
My mum suggested me to be an air crew.
Or join the police force.

 I wanted to be a fashion merchandiser, but having a degree doesn't guarantee entry into the industry.

I wasn't in love with the idea of paying debts even after marriage. 
A normal office job might not suffice.
So, not fascinated with the idea with physical training, I joined SQ.

Source: singaporeair.com


I wanted to quit once I'm done paying the debts.

So on 09 July 2001, I signed the contract to be a Singapore Girl.


What do I like about being an air crew?


While in SQ, I celebrated my first X'mas in London, had New Year's dinner in Seoul and Paris, and countdown in New York.
I shopped at H&M, GAP, Victoria's Secret, Abercombie and Forever 21, way before they opened in Singapore.
Plus more that haven't make their way into Singapore like Old Navy, American Eagle Outfitters.

During my flying days, I don't shop in Singapore at all.
Shopping overseas was more exciting.  Things were much trendier and afforable.
If I splurge on a branded bag in Europe, I get tax rebate that amount to a couple of hundreds.
If I purchase an entire set of Dermalogica products from LA, I would save 25% compared to buying in Singapore.


I have travelled to 90% of the destinations that Singapore Airlines fly to.
Many of these destinations are what I can only dream about if I held an office job.

Asia ~ Bangkok, Beijing, Fukoka, Hong Kong, Jakarta, Manila, Narita, Nagoya, Osaka, Shanghai, Seoul, Tokyo, Taipei
America ~ Los Angeles, Las Vegas (I went there with my friends from LA), New York, San Francisco
Australia & New Zeland ~  Adelaide, Auckland, Brisbane, Christchurch, Melbourne, Perth, Sydney
Europe ~ Amsterdam, Athens, Brussels, Cambridge (I travelled there from London with my buddy), Copenhagen, Frankfurt, Istanbul, London, Manchester, Milan, Paris, Rome, Zurich

And of course, there are locations that are not, erm, idealistic, but well, it's part of the job.

India ~ Ahmedabad, Delhi, Male, Mumbai
Africa ~ Abu Dhabi, Cairo, Dubai, Jeddah, Johannesburg

Yes, that means I have been to Disneyland, Magic Mountain, the Pyramids, the Little Mermaid, Eiffel Tower, London Bridge, Broadway, Hyde Park, the Bund, Shilin Night Market, Statute of Liberty, Forbidden City, Old Trafford, Hollywood, The Rock, the Blue Mosque, the Greek islands, Pantheon, Acropolis and more.


My fridge magnet collected from all the cities I flew to.


So, I covered 46 cities in my 6 years of flying.
That's an average of 7.5 new cities every year.
I'm not including those that the plane stopped only for a turnaround.
It's an awesome experience really. To have gone halfway round the globe.
If I am to clock that number of cities with my own money, I will either be very broke or very old by then.

Randomly, Singapore has the best and most well-rounded airport in the world!
Asia's newer airports like Beijing, Hong Kong, Shanghai and Seoul might also have the same glassy facade, but no other airport beats our Changi Airport!
That said, I really loved the parquet flooring at some parts of the Copenhagen Airport.
So Scandinavian, so Ikea!

I get a free air ticket to any destination every year.
But I have never used it.
Had wanted to transfer to one of my parents in the next year, but my parents are not keen.
So after I got married, the Husband got to travel with me.
He gets my free ticket plus he is also entitled to one himself annually.
 He was on cloud nine when he got to go Old Trafford and Santa Monica.
To the Husband, it was like a never-ending honeymoon when I was a stewardess.


Source: singaporeair.com

Free travelling aside, getting trained by the top airline in the world is one of the best things that ever happened to me.

SIA really put in A LOT OF EFFORT into training its software, that is, the cabin crew.
From the sentences an SQ girl is supposed to sprout, the facial expressions, the way we sashay down the aisles to how we say sorry in various situations, the School of Cabin Crew have it all down.
We were even taught self-defence.
It was a very intensive 4-month training for all of us.
There were tests every week, and if you flunk too many, you might never get a chance to don that sarong kebaya.
The training doesn't end after we become full-fledged stewardesses.
Throughout a year, we are often sent back for training and upgrading.

SIA is a darling for offering a wide range of free courses that we can opt to take during our off days.
E.g. conversational Japanese/Spanish/German/French/Mandarin, wine courses and many more that I can't remember.
If there's one thing I'm very proud of my days in SQ, it's the wonderful and enriching training that I received. 
Both on ground and on board.

We might be portrayed as demure and gentle in ads, but we're all Wonder Women when the unglamourous part of the work set in!
It has trained me very well to think fast on my feet and conjure up a solution with whatever limited resources I have.
I've gotten quite adept at coaxing crying babies and pacifying vexed mothers who are travelling alone with their children.
To me, my colleagues are the most amazing air crew in the world. 
The umpteen times they have shown me what quick thinkers they are and how creative they can be when it comes to providing top-notch service, I am humbled and impressed.

Just last Thursday, a friend spotted a well-known chef with a lady on a food magazine cover, at Cheers.
He turned around and asked me smugly for his name, thinking that I wouldn't know.
I didn't find it funny.

"Sam Leong. That's his Thai wife."
"Oh, so you know! Now let me test you, which F&B group does Sam Leong work for?"
"Tung Lok."
"Hey, you know that too!"
"Dude, Sam Leong is on the International Culinary Panel of SIA for years. You know I worked with SQ before, right?"

What do I dislike about flying?



Cabin crew barely get to choose when they want to be in Singapore. 
Leave has to be planned about a year ahead. 
It's by luck whether you get your choice of leave.

It can be your anniversary with your boyfriend, your grandmother's 81st birthday or the important gathering of your school mates.
If you don't manage to get an off day by swapping your flights, you just have to miss it.

Thinking of feigning illness and getting a MC?
Babe, MCs affect your record, which in turn affect your promotion and contract renewal chances.
Even if it's genuine.
That time of the month? You have to bear it and flash your radiant smile onboard.
If you're heartbroken or having some other emotional problem, don't ever let it show in front of passengers.
Getting a complaint from passengers is no joking matter.
You can go cry and sulk in the toilet but stay professional once you're on display.
You don't expect passengers to hear or see how unwell you are when they pay good money to get a seat on SIA.

It's not that you're not allowed to fall sick.
But if you're the kind that fall sick easily, you should consider twice about being an air crew.
Simple ailments like flu and cough will put you unsuitable for flight.
In my 6 years of flying, I have only taken sick leave twice.

I was trained for the ultra long-haul flights to States.
Fancy being stuck in an airplane for at least 18 hours?
When I hit the 15th hour, my mind starts going bonkers and pushing on is a matter of sheer mental work.

I have never been a fan of heavy makeup and perfectly coiffed hair, with lots of hairspray and hairgel holding it up.
But that is part of my uniform. 
Perfectly coloured and polished nails are a must too for every flight.
From the time I put on my makeup to the time I removed it, it can be a mind-boggling 24 hours later.
Torturous.

With the volatile schedule every month, I can never sign up for any external courses and score perfect attendance.
For the Japanese course I took for 2 years, I photocopied more notes from my classmates than sitting in for lessons.
It's a miracle that I scraped through JLPT1.
I know of colleagues who did their degrees part-time and took study leave for exams. 
But most big companies in Singapore and government bodies don't recognise such degrees.
That also means being in such a job, you don't get a high chance of upgrading your qualifications.
Unless you go on unpaid leave. But that is subject to approval.

In a month, I get about 10-11 off days. 
Split between spending time with family, the Husband, friends, running personal errands, doing things I like and generally just rest time in between flights.
Half the time, I'm zoned out.
 The long-time fatigue from doing flights caught on to me as I grow older.

Common ailments cabin crew have are back problems and gastric.
It's a job hazard.
Many of us underwent physiotherapy for our backaches.
I was lucky that it wasn't serious enough for me to lose my job.
There are also colleagues who still suffer from jet lag after 10 years of flying.




This is one of the most insightful questions I have ever received on my previous job.

We fly with a different set of crew every flight.
Different pilots, different supervisors, different colleagues amd of course, different passengers.
It's hard to strike any great friendship.
If you are looking for love, that depends on if you find cabin crew and pilots suitable since they are the ones you will have prolonged contact with.
If a passenger passes you a namecard onboard, flattering as it may be, you sometimes can't be sure if he is married, attached or single.

A smart Alec once commented on how he thought stewardesses to be of only girlfriend material and not worthy enough to be a wife.
It took a fair amount of self-restraint not to step on his feet with my stilettos.
I count myself lucky that the Husband's family did not judge me by my occupation.




Flying might be a dream job for many ladies but it cannot be considered as a long-term career. 
As ladies, we can only work till 45 and the contract is renewed every 5 years.
So if the company hits a recession period during your 5th year, they might not renew your contract.
Plus, a stewardess has to quit once she gets pregnant.
No buts about it. 
You can come back flying once you're ready, but it's up to the company whether they will take you back.
That also means you might be jobless for at least a year.

So remember, if you can get a degree before joining the airline, get it. 
You get higher basic pay, which translates into more bonuses and CPF being contributed to your a/c.

Oh, and one more thing, buying Coca-cola is always 2-3 times more expensive than Singapore.


How did I cope with flying while being attached/married?


 When I got together with the then-boyfriend-now-Husband, I was already a stewardess.
So the Boyfriend was pretty used to me not being around all the time.
He was sweet enough to send me off and pick me up from the airport every time I had to work.
He didn't have a car then.
That make him extra thoughtful and caring.

That said, I never like boys who enjoy nightlife like clubbing and partying into the late night.
I wouldn't feel secure if I'm not in Singapore.
Too much to worry. 
Lucky the Boyfriend was the work-then-go-home kind.
When he meets his friends, he makes an effort to let me know beforehand and will always text me to inform me his location.
Be it whether I'm in Singapore or not.

He would spend at least a hundred dollars on calling cards to call me at my hotel rooms.
I still have a collection of all the phonecards he had used up!
Every day, we would talk for at least an hour.
Skype wasn't that stable then.
The Boyfriend was more than willing to spend that money.
Even in cities like Dubai, where the call is like S$1 per minute.
He never stinge on me.

No matter what time it is in Singapore, once I check in and text him the hotel number & my room number, within 5 minutes, the Boyfriend will call me and we will spend at least an hour catching up.

After we got married, we stayed with my in-laws for 3 years. 
Out of which, the first 2 years, I was still flying.
I guess he doesn't feel the lonliness, as his parents and siblings were all living with him.
I have less of a worry too that he might cheat on me, since his mum is still there to watch over him. 
So it's not like he can bring someone home when I'm out of town.
Hahaha!

I will text him liberally when I'm overseas, even if it's like 80cents per sms.
My bill comes up to about S$100+ every month.
To maintain close communication, spending money on autoroaming and overseas messages is definitely necessary.


Why did I quit flying?




I finished paying my NUS loans after about 4 years of flying.
Just before I got married. =)
Stayed on for the 5th year gratuity.

Wasn't quite sure what industry I should enter. I still have zero idea on how to get a headstart in the fashion industry. Though I did considered getting a visa to work for TopShop in London.
My buddy has gone into market research after her 3rd year and is doing well.
I contemplated applying for internal transfer with SIA HQ.
But my interest in the aviation industry is zilch.
Eventually, I quitted for a higher calling.

Oh well, life has a plan of its own and here I am blogging, as an owner of a bag blogshop. =P
Meeting new people and exploring new places repeatedly might sound fun.
But there comes a time when I just cannot leave Singapore anymore.
I just don't want to squash myself into the uniform, pin on my badge and do the SQ hair and makeup.
I got very weary of living out of a suitcase most of the time. 
And believe it or not, travelling doesn't turn me on anymore.
All I wanted was to be around my family and friends and not to be thrown into a new environment everytime I leave for work.
It was getting too unstable to be etching out my livelihood in the air.

Ask any air crew who's on the verge of quitting and he/she will tell you the same thing.
We just don't want to pack that cargo bag anymore.
Before we leave Singapore, we are already thinking of the flight back. 
Before we report for flight the next day, we are already dreading waking up for work and not being around again.
We just cannot take it not being in Singapore for X'mas Eve and Chinese New Year, anymore.

From the first year of flying, I wish I am in a job where I can contribute more.
Not just being in the front line, fighting fires as they come.
A career that can utilise all the skills and knowledge I possess.
Not just looking good, carrying out the service flow and making small & forgettable conversations with strangers that I probably will never meet again.

I quitted when I was 27.
I did not want to look back on my twenties and felt that I had spent it all only at being an air stewardess.
Shouldn't my twenties be more exciting than travelling for free?
Shouldn't my twenties be more defining than an iconic sarong kebaya?
I dream of being a career woman when I was schooling. 
Not a uniformed air waitress.

I am grateful for all the experiences that I gained in SQ and that it helped me pay off my school loans faster than my peers.
At the very least, it helped me answer that silly question from my guy friend.
Nah, to be honest, if I didn't have the composure and service attitude SQ drilled into me, I would be less able at managing Tian Fen Lan and fending off shoppers with unreasonable/greedy requests.

Even if I can't find a job now, I will never go back to flying.
I didn't enjoy the travelling and the work itself.
Cool as it sounds, most of the sight-seeing was actually done with minimal sleep and a jet-lagged body.
It's really more fun to be travelling with your loved ones and with more time on your hand, instead of the 1-1.5 off days we have outstation.
I am no fan of soccer, but when I travelled to Old Trafford with the Husband, his joy and excitement were contagious.
When I first brought him to Santa Monica, the place suddenly felt so much more fun and romantic with him around.


Some things to think about

If you can get a degree before joining the airline, get it. 
You get higher basic pay, which translates into more bonuses and CPF being contributed to your a/c.
CPF is only deductible from our basic pay and not the allowances.
That means your CPF will be much lower than your peers.
So save up all the cash! Don't go crazy on LVs, Guccis or Chanels!
Load up on the cash and buy a condo for rental income next time!
So much more worth it!

Being an air crew, you need a high degree of independence.
While overseas, you sometimes have to travel alone, eat alone, shop alone and even go sightseeing alone.
Everyone have different itineraries when overseas.
Some colleagues just want to sleep in due to fatigue & jet lag. Some go visiting friends/relatives.
Some want to shop in a different part of the city. Some want to study for their exams.
Some just want to rot in their rooms with HBO and Star TV.
If you can't find someone that you can clique with, you're better off alone, instead of struggling to make patronising talk the entire time you're outstation.

Have an exit plan ready.
Many come into the airline, giving themselves 2 years.
Then, they end up staying on for 10 years or more.
People say flying is relatively stress-free, compared to outside jobs.
Yes, if you exclude all the homework that you are supposed to read up before every flight.

People expect the Singapore Girl to be well-versed in her company and its offerings.
I once had a Singaporean man coming up to ask me who the CEO and Chairman of SIA were.
I don't know why he has the urge to know that, in the middle of a long flight.
Or a passenger can ask you what's the difference between First Class, Business Class and Economy Class wines.
It's not like I can tell him straight in the face, "You pay for what you get." without sounding rude.

Tests pop out of nowhere on every other flight.
As SQ cabin crew, we have to be very alert and aware while working.
Also because the company takes passenger complaints VERY seriously.

In my training batch, a handful of us were NUS/NTU graduates.
We were saying how we wanted to have bigger career dreams beyond flying and how flying was just a temporary solution/aspiration for us.
But guess what, one of my batch girls is getting her 10-year gratuity this year.

Time flies when you are flying.
Go for a long flight, come back and 1 week just flew by.
Know what you want to achieve from flying.
It's a very tiring job and we worked very hard to earn the money we bring home.
Don't waste your time inside and have no savings when you quit the airline.

Plan for your future and what you want to do after SIA.
Don't go thinking the gratuity is a lot.
It is CPF & tax deductible.
A supervisor once told me if he had the chance to relive his life again, he will never want to fly for 25 years.

Whichever job you may be in, I hope it doesn't happen to you too.
Not when it's not your dream job.

Tell you something else, I didn't and still don't know how to swim or tread water.
It wasn't a criteria to know to how to swim.
For the last interview round, we're supposed to jump from a 1-2m height into a 2-3metre pool.
We were all to wear life vests, be it we know how to swim or not.
Totally freaked out and kept thinking I'm going to drown.
A couple of girls backed out.
I had come so far and wasn't ready to back down.
So JUMP, I did!



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Being a blogshop owner is definitely more pressurising and taxing than being a stewardess.
Every day, every other moment, I'm thinking about improving Tian Fen Lan.
But although I'm sloughing my guts out as the owner of Tian Fen Lan, I'm so much happier and fulfilled!
I only wish I started earlier!

I hope this entry helps clarify some doubts for you readers who aspire to be a Singapore Girl.
It's not all rainbows, fluff and cotton candy working for SIA.
If you're looking for easy money, being a SQ cabin crew is not for you.
The top airline in the world doesn't get there by being a slacker.





Metta,
欣雨 Xinyu

15 October 2011

Something to smile about


Once in a while, when I have a bit of time, I like to read the news feed on TFL's Facebook a/c.
It's kinda interesting to see all the different photos posted by TFL friends. 
Seeing what is important, fun, sad, happy and frustrating to others. 
Having a Facebook a/c is like having a mini blog. 
It saves you the torture of setting up a blog from scratch and worrying about ugly layouts.
Your FB friends become your ready readers.
Whether they like it or not. 
Muahahaha!

Looking at all the mobile uploads, almost everyone has a smartphone. 
Except me. 
Bummer.

I chanced upon this today.
It has already been shared on TFL FB's a/c and Fan Page.
But I like it so much that I'm going to plaster this on my blog now, before I rush off for my Dharma lessons.


By 3 EES Photography

Beautiful, isn't it?
Just like those Tumblr photos we see, except this was created by the photographer himself.
He's a non-local, but I don't know which country he is from.


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This is witty!
Reminds me of how I failed my Maths all the way in JC, till important exams when I forced myself to cram for it.

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This reminds me of Steve Jobs. 
Brillant.


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Took me quite a while to understand this.
When it dawned on me, I can't stop grinning. 

When we have a dream and want to go all out to pursue the impossible, don't we have to lie to ourselves that we can do it?
We probably don't have the confidence.
Neither does anyone around us.
We very likely don't have the ability too.
And no one can teach us.
We just have to think we can.
It's the core of all our actions that follow.

Now let me share something that has kept me smiling since Thursday!



Bought these bunches of bracelets/bangles from Diva at 313 on Thursday night!
I've been looking searching for such cool stuff for eons!
Not the usual metal clangs of bangles but more colourful and hippy stuff.
The bottom 2 bunches remind me of my chanting beads.
Did I mention I have a love for all kinds of chanting beads??
I have about 5 different types of various materials!

Diva is having this Buy-2-get-1-free promotion. 
Not sure how long it's going to be though.
So go get something if you like accessorising!

The salesgirl was rather eager bringing different styles of bracelets to show me, when I was shopping around the shop.
I must have exuded the I'm-going-to-buy-everything aura.

I almost bought them when I was at Diva at Ion last month.
But the scrooge in me couldn't bear to pay $40+.
Made me think that the necklaces I'm selling on TFL are really quite affordable!
Postage included, you know!

I went to did some Maths.
If divided by 3, one bunch will cost only about $16. 
When further divided by the number of bracelet strands in each bunch, each strand cost S$2 plus?
And I can mix and match all of them as and how I want!
Alright, not exactly economical, but I want them so badly!

I think the most economical way would be to buy 3 bunches, that all cost S$20 each!
Hahaha!

Don't ask me how I end up buying a bangle bunch that costs S$26.
Plus, it's from China. -___-
The other 2 colourful bunches are from India. =D
Do you know India has the most amazing accessories??
Been there and I can vouch for it!

Diva probably has the most chic accessories around, together with Forever 21!
F21 is more affordable though.

Can't wait to wear them out!

And another thing that have kept me smiling!


I finally got down to teaching myself how to scrapbook digitally!
*clap clap clap*
Eh, not easy, you know. 
I'm 32 and not 12.
I don't mind buying a new brand of ecological household cleaner and testing it to see how well it can scrub my designer kitchen.
But learning new IT stuff?
*Bleah*

Yes, it's not quite up to standard yet.
But I'm going to get amazing at it!! 
*Be-lie-ve*


By 3 EES Photography

Got to run!
Enjoy your weekends with your loved one, everybody!



Metta,
欣雨 Xinyu

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